TRUTH
About Men and Women

Introduction

Young boys are always "mama's boys"; they depend on their mothers to set the standards, behavior and goals by which they live. These standards later determine what type of adult males they will be. Little girls use their mothers as their first and most significant role model. Hence the adage, "The hand that rocks the cradle rules the world."

Once the mothers of men set this behavior and these standards, it is almost impossible to change men later, as millions of wives have discovered.

The mothers of the late twentieth century are creating a type of man that has not existed before in this country and perhaps has not existed for many generations. It is a type of man who is "in touch with his feminine side"; who believes that the only difference in men and women is genitalia; who has no inherent respect for the female nor any "built-in" need to protect women; who does not recognize that for many thousands of years, men and women have had very separate and unequal roles in society.

Women, who "rock the cradle", have created a new type of man. By virtue of this fact, and to this extent, women will get the type of man they deserve in the future. They may not like him.

Forget the “politically correct”; see the truth.

The American people need to be reminded of some facts about men and women. In today's culture, where truth and standards are often ignored so that people can believe whatever they want without regard to the objective truth, our whole perception of the relationships between men and women has been warped by our changing moral climate, the educational system and the popular mass media. Things that are blatantly, obviously false are accepted as truth; truth is denied or ignored. In order to force certain changes upon our society, laws have been passed and regulations enforced, which are based upon complete and utter disregard for basic human nature and objective truth.

It is the objective of this essay to make these facts and truth available to those who seek to understand the nature of relationships between men and women so that our culture can cope with these changes and better understand the dangers they pose to our society and each of us individually.

1.

Men are physically stronger than women.

This statement is undeniably true. Today, this true statement is forgotten or ignored by radical feminists, the education establishment, legislators, regulators, and — in the formation of their belief systems— by average men and women. While it may be true that some women are stronger than some men, on the average there is no contest between men and women in terms of physical strength. For every woman, there is some man who can physically dominate her completely. This fact of nature has led many societies to the complete suppression of women in terms of their participation in family life and society in general. Women become second-class citizens, only able to live their lives according to the whims of the men who dominate them. Women are forced to seek a man as protector and provider and have often been stripped of their rights to own property, travel or participate in any organization of that society. They have been forced to do what they were told to do by their male protector and to seek his good will for her very life and existence.

In this type of society, women without protectors are raped, abused, enslaved and/or killed at the whim of men. There are no examples in history of stable societies where the reverse has occurred. It is a physical impossibility for men to be dominated physically by women for any length of time. Even in those so-called "matriarchal" societies, where wealth, position and power have been handed down from woman to woman from generation to generation, it is only with the tacit approval and consent of the matriarch's male protectors that such can occur.

2.

It is only when women act as "civilizers" of men that they avoid abuse and oppression.

In almost every instance of war or civil unrest, it is women who suffer the most. Part of the very terminology of warfare is predicated upon this truth: conquering armies of men "rape and pillage". In the recent "ethnic cleansing" wars in various European and African countries, one of the most popularized atrocities committed by all sides in these conflicts is the brutalization, rape and/or impregnation of the women from the other side of the conflict by the side holding the upper hand. Rewarding conquering armies by allowing, encouraging or overlooking the rape and abuse of the women of the conquered side has been the practice of societies for millennia and still occurs to this present day. This truth, too, is undeniable.

To cope with this truth over the millennia, women have learned to "civilize" men. Women and the men who truly love them have been the force behind the creation of stable, strong societies in which protection of women against the overpowering nature of men was either made a standard of the very culture itself or where such protection of women was enforced by the rule of law. These rules were legislated by men, enforced by men, taught to succeeding generations of men by their fathers but the impetus for these rules came from women. The "enlightened" men who write and enforce the legislation were themselves civilized and taught such standards by their mothers. It is not a naturally occurring concept to men. The adage that "the hand that rocks the cradle rules the world" is only true when such rules are accepted and enforced by men.

3.

It is only with the love (agape) of men for women that a strong, stable society can exist.

Women give sex for love; men give love for sex. Women are by nature monogamous; men are by nature polygamous. One of the most basic, animal instincts of men is the desire to procreate. It is second only to fear as the strongest inherent "drive" in the nature of men. This desire to procreate is not, by nature, channeled into monogamy. Given the opportunity and the lack of prohibition, and based upon the most unfettered, natural instincts of men, every man will mate with every available woman using force if necessary to accomplish that goal. Monogamy is not a natural instinct of man. This truth, too, is undeniable.

Because of the instinct of self-preservation, monogamy is the natural goal of women. The seeking of a protector is coupled with the necessity of remaining in good favor with the protector which means that the woman reserves sexual favors only for her protector as a means of binding the man to her and furthering his instinct to protect what is his, including his mate and the mother of his children.

The provision of protection and sustenance to the woman and the offspring by the man coupled by the loyalty of the woman to the man is the most basic foundation for the presence of true love (agape). Agape is that love which goes beyond sexual love (eros) to that love and affection for the very person of the woman. Eros can enhance and help sustain agape, but eros, within itself, can find expression with any female. Agape will only be found between a man and a woman who mutually respect each other and recognize their interdependence. The woman's respect for the man is based on the realization of the necessity of needing his protection and provision and the man's respect for the woman is based upon her willing gift of sexual favors coupled with her support and loyalty to her protector. When these conditions exist, and the experience is rewarding to both parties, the man and woman in most instances experience agape toward their mate.

That true love, based on respect and genuine devotion to the person of the mate, helps the man, woman and children become a stable family. A group of stable families becomes a village; a group of villages becomes a state; a group of states becomes a nation; such a group of nations becomes a culture. The building blocks of all stable societies are so patterned. Any nation or culture that fails to maintain this pattern will eventually disintegrate. This too, is undeniable truth.

4.

Women are in great danger of losing the freedom Western Civilization provides and once again becoming abused and oppressed.

It is the dysfunctional relationship between men and women which is destroying the stability of families and the disintegration of stable families which is leading to civil unrest in communities and cities and which will eventually lead to the demise of this civilized society.

The only protection against rape, abuse and oppression of women by men is the stable society, which lives by the rule of law. In America today, 50% of all marriages end in divorce. Young men are being raised by "single" women who do not understand the vital nature of their jobs as the civilizing influence on the next generation of men. Radical feminists promulgate the lie that women do not need men and the insistence that women be treated as the equals of men goes against basic human nature. The American government's contemporary policies are also based on the false idea that "family" does not mean a man and a woman and children. Welfare and other government subsidies reinforce the false notion that single parents can competently raise children as easily as the family with both a man and a women functioning in their natural roles.

Ignorant, uninformed and weak-minded men allow the political and societal influence of women to lead them to a misunderstanding of the basic nature of men and women. Evil but strong men seek political advantage by publicly espousing the equality of women while privately abusing women and using them and weak men to gain power and prestige. They are evil because they recognize and display the basic, animal instincts of men in their private dealing with women but claim to believe in perfect equality of the sexes and then use the unrest and turmoil in society to gain power.

Ignorant, uninformed and weak-minded women see the supposed emancipation of women in laws which suppress men and give women artificial advantages in today's society. Evil, but strong women seek out as protectors evil men who will publicly espouse equality for women and who will tolerate the evil women rising to positions of power and prominence in society because those evil women support their protectors and encourage their followers to support these evil men even while those protectors abuse and suppress women in their private lives.

A recent example of this phenomenon in today's society was the support by ordinary women coupled with the radical feminists' support of former U. S. President Bill Clinton who has shown himself to be an oppressor and abuser of women in his private life while publicly supporting every radical feminist cause. Even his wife (a radical feminist) has been willing to overlook and forgive his public philandering in order to retain her position, power and prestige that she gained by supporting and clinging to her husband. Ignorant and weak-minded women and radical feminists elected Bill Clinton as President of the United States not once, but twice even after Clinton's mistreatment of women was completely clear. It was their majority in the voting ranks that elected him; a higher percentage of men voted for other candidates in both of his elections. So many men had not been properly trained by their mothers in the previous generation that these ignorant and weak-minded men voted for Clinton when he could still have been turned away.

Disobeying a basic law of nature always leads to pain and destruction. Fire burns: stick your finger in a fire and you will lose your finger if it is not quickly removed. Ignore gravity by jumping from a high structure and your body will be damaged or destroyed by the impact of the force of gravity slamming you against a hard surface. Ignore the true nature of men and women and men will revert to that uncivilized but true nature and the natural forces unleashed when men are not taught to provide for and protect women will oppress women.

Conclusion

Any man or woman who truly loves living in a stable society where women are protected and men and women are able to pursue their higher nature in building an ever more stable and prolific society should be thoroughly alarmed by the trends in Western Culture over the past 50 years. It is only in a stable society where men and women are truly free to pursue the better side of their nature, to promote and advance science, the arts, increasing the standard of living and culture itself. It is only in a stable society that men can truly put aside their animal nature and create a world with high standards of living and true personal freedom.

This lofty world cannot be created or even advanced by legislative or regulatory fiat. Freedom is only possible where the animal natures of mankind are suppressed and controlled. Government cannot give freedom. Freedom begins with the development of stable families, which allow the further building blocks to more freedom in villages, states and nations.

If strong, evil men and women, aided and abetted by weak-minded men and women, are allowed to destroy the basic building blocks of culture by the indifference and complacence of men and women who otherwise recognize the true nature of things, then their society is doomed.

Women should recognize that it is not men who suffer most in such disintegration but women who will be raped, abused, repressed and relegated to the status of true sexual objects in such a society. It is women who have the most to lose because men will always band together to satisfy their basic needs.

It is most likely that only women can save our nation and our culture. It is women who must restart the cycle of civilizing their young male children and teaching them to protect the next generation of women. The downward spiral of society, which began with the end of World War II where women began to fail to teach their male children to protect and provide for the next generation of women, can be reversed by a single generation of women if they will only recognize what they have to lose.

This generation of women can teach their young male and female children the truth about the relationship of men and women and the next generation can begin the upward spiral of culture that led to the freedom both men and women enjoy today. That upward spiral began not with the United States of America, not with this century, not with the "suffragette" movement, not with Betty Friedan, but with the great enlightenment that began in the 1600's when religion overthrew the effects of the "dark ages" and men and women began to be free to express their ideas and concepts of personal freedom. This was not an easy transition and it only came about because of the strength of women who civilized their men.

Men have to be taught first by women so that they can — in the next generation — assist the women in providing ever more civilizing influences on the following generation.

Are the women of America smart enough to recognize and believe the truth? Are they strong enough to stop supporting the evil men and women who are destroying a type of civilization which took 400 years to develop — the first culture in which women have had any degree of real freedom? Are they wise enough to recognize that their place in the world is not made second-class by the men who oppress them but by their mothers who failed to civilize those oppressive men?

Our great-grandchildren will know the answers to these questions. Today, it does not look hopeful; only time will tell.

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